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Would You Rather Questions for Couples

A little playful. A little revealing.

A little playful. A little revealing.

Would you rather…

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TAKE THE CONVERSATION FURTHER

25 would you rather questions for couples

Turn an ordinary evening into a conversation about the way you both see dates, home, travel, and everyday affection. These couple questions are light enough for a new relationship and open-ended enough for partners who have known each other for years.

A way to play

Before tapping, guess your partner's answer. Compare your guesses, then talk about why each option appeals to you. Skip anything either person would rather leave alone.

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    Would you rather plan a surprise day trip together or plan a perfect stay-at-home day together?

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    Would you rather have a weekly breakfast date or have a weekly late-night dessert date?

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    Would you rather recreate your first date every year or try a completely new date every anniversary?

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    Would you rather receive a thoughtful handwritten note or receive a carefully chosen small gift?

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    Would you rather live in a cozy apartment in a lively city or live in a little house somewhere quiet?

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    Would you rather take a cooking class together or take a dance class together?

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    Would you rather have matching hobbies or have different hobbies you teach each other?

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    Would you rather be in charge of the travel itinerary or be in charge of finding places to eat?

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    Would you rather have a rainy weekend in a cabin or have a sunny weekend by the sea?

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    Would you rather share one big dream for the future or have separate dreams you help each other pursue?

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    Would you rather get a spontaneous compliment in public or get a heartfelt compliment in private?

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    Would you rather make a photo album of your adventures or keep a shared journal of your everyday life?

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    Would you rather cook a complicated dinner together or order takeout and build a blanket fort?

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    Would you rather explore a new city without a schedule or follow a carefully planned route through a new city?

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    Would you rather have a partner who always chooses the movie or have a partner who always chooses the restaurant?

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    Would you rather learn your partner's favorite childhood recipe or visit your partner's favorite childhood place?

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    Would you rather celebrate tiny wins every week or save up for one big celebration every year?

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    Would you rather wake up early for a sunrise together or stay up late to watch the stars together?

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    Would you rather be surprised with a fully planned date or get three date ideas and choose your favorite?

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    Would you rather spend a month traveling slowly through one country or spend a month visiting a different city every few days?

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    Would you rather have a home full of plants or have a home full of books?

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    Would you rather start a small creative project together or train for a fun physical challenge together?

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    Would you rather be able to replay your funniest shared moment or be able to replay your most peaceful shared moment?

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    Would you rather always have time for a long walk together or always have time for a long dinner together?

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    Would you rather know what your partner wanted before they asked or always find the perfect words when they need support?

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ONE MORE QUESTION

How could we try a small version of your choice this week?

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